"In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world." –John 16:33

Month: February 2016

Grandpa Milo, Alzheimer’s and Sports

When we drive Grandpa Milo to church, we have time to talk with him. It is a lot of fun and we always learn something. We have to talk about things that happened a long time ago because his short term memory is not so good. Our talk yesterday, as usual was a gift to us. We talked about when he played sports in elementary school and high school in Cottage Grove, Oregon back in the 1940’s. One of my favorite stories that I have heard often was when his high school basketball was doing well, but not as well as the coach desired.

The coach gathered the team around and asked the question in what, I suppose was a rhetorical way, “Are you here to have fun or are you here to win!?”

That was probably the wrong thing to ask a bunch of extremely hard working farmer and logger boys whose brothers had just come back from fighting World War II. Sports were definitively not anything to be taken seriously. No one believed then that the “courage” and “sacrifice” required to participate in sports were a good way to build character. Nor did they believe the exercise they got playing them was anywhere close to the physical duress they experienced when working on the farm or in the woods. So, the idea that it was a builder of character was transparently wrong. That left sports as something to do for fun and, to a much smaller extent, exercise.

Grandpa answered for all of them, “We play for fun. As soon as this quits being fun, we will quit playing basketball.”

Maybe we ought to get back to thinking that way about sports again in our day.

Betty Blonde #489 – 06/21/2010
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Davy Crockett went to Texas under similar circumstances

We really are going to Texas to try to balance family responsibilities. We have wonderful friends here in Oregon, I am a native son, we love the unparalleled beauty and we even love the weather (most of the time). That being said, Davy Crockett’s famous quote when he resigned from the U.S. House of Representatives resonates with us. He said, “…you may all go to hell and I will go to Texas.” The reason it resonates with us has to do with the draconian land use laws, the horrible Portland freeways, the outrageous new minimum wage that will drive small business into the ground, the abysmal public education system and a coarsening libertine culture that is abortion friendly, anti-traditional marriage and, frequently anti-Christian.

Oregon, we love you and our roots are here, but unless law, culture and our personal responsibilities change, to paraphrase Oregon governor Tom McCall, “We will come visit again and again… But for heaven’s sake, we don’t plan to come here to live.”

Betty Blonde #488 – 06/18/2010
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Packing days — Grandpa Milo forgets and Grandma Sarah slows down

It was a little bit of a melancholy night last night. Grandpa Milo’s Alzheimer’s progress slowly but surely.

I told him last night, “Dad, you know we are moving to Texas in a couple of weeks.”

He said, “You are? That is disappointing.”

He had completely forgotten from when we told him last Sunday and a week ago Wednesday. Fortunately, he is in very good hands with my siblings all close by and friends from church willing and able to get him to Sunday morning meeting, the Wednesday night Bible studies and the various gospel meetings. Still it is a hard thing. It is getting harder and harder for him to get in and out of the car. He insists on doing everything himself still, but is less able by a great deal than when we got here. It is hard to see because he was truly a great father

Grandma Sarah’s mind is good, but she really finds it difficult to leave home now for anything other than doctor’s appointments. I just feel very, very grateful for parents who had my best interest at heart and, much more than that, have loved and depended on God for so long in their lives, it is now a habit that consoles them and all of us in their old age.

Betty Blonde #487 – 06/17/2010
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Homeschool done right

I just found an article in the Chicago Tribune about homeschool done right. A school teacher writes about how her mind was changed when she started teaching at the college level. The article speaks for itself and represents our experience.

Betty Blonde #486 – 06/16/2010
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Dallas, Texas

I resigned my job in Portland, Oregon area yesterday to accept a position in Dallas, Texas. The part of the move that has to do with work is great. The part that has to do with leaving Grandpa Milo and Grandma Sarah behind in Oregon makes us sad. They are in good hands with my siblings and with the church with whom they meet so they will be fine. One of the main reasons for the move is to be closer to Grandma Conchita who is alone now, Grandpa Lauro having died over a year ago. We have a good real estate agent looking for a place for us close to the new job, but not so close that we could be characterized as big city dwellers. More about this as it moves forward.

Betty Blonde #485 – 06/15/2010
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Kelly goes to Canada (a non-skiing ski trip)

CanadaSkiing_2016-02-19Kelly texted me this image from where she sits studying this morning. She drove up to Canada with a friend to keep her company in the lodge (her friend has an injured leg) and it appears she is actually getting some studying done. She has a ton of studying to do, but I think she is weakening though–she says she might try to ski for half a day tomorrow. It looks beautiful up there. I have to admit I am somewhat envious. I definitely would do all my non-skiing in the lodge with a hot beverage in my hand. Kelly is meeting some new friends, so that is a fine thing.

Turned down a chance to move to Dallas

I got a job offer for a job I would love to do in the Dallas, Texas. I say Dallas because we have a Dallas here, too, and I do not want to confuse my Oregon friends. When the kids were younger and we homeschooled them, I would have jumped at a thing like this. Lorena and I did it several times. We moved from Florida to Oregon between when Kelly was born and when Christian was born. We moved from the Portland area to Albany after Kelly’s third grade year and Christian’s first grade year. That move might not seem like too big of a change, but was bigger than I expected both culturally and educationally (for the kids). We moved to Dallas for six months, then to North Carolina for seven years leading up to where we find ourselves now–back in the Portland, Oregon area.

All of that moving was very, very good for the family. The kids understand that no one place stands above other places as the ultimate, end-all places to live. There are exceptions, but people confined to a single place seem to have a tendency to think the place to which they have been confined is the only place that exists. No, though, I find myself, for the first time in my life, turning down a great job that will provide me advancement and very, very interesting work so I can be close enough to help out with aging parents and stay within a short plane ride from one kid and a short train trip to the other. It feels kind of confining, but it also feels good to have done what I believe is the right thing. This, too, will end and we can move again… if we want to.

Betty Blonde #484 – 06/14/2010
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More narcissism

After all the talk amongst family and friends about M. Scott Peck’s book on narcissism titled The People of the Lie, an article titled Narcissism is Increasing. So You’re Not So Special. appeared. It address the same topic and I think it is a huge problem that began with my generation and has gotten worse ever since. Awareness helps to combat it, but it takes work and no one is immune. It is a fundamentally unchristian behavior. If the New York Times is noticing it, it has to be bad. They seem to be a hotbed of that kind of behavior and attitude.

Betty Blonde #483 – 06/11/2010
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Evil exists: The People of the Lie

People of the LieThe People of the Lie is a book that has had a pretty big impact on my life. It is a book the mother of a friend recommended I read when I was in college. I think she recommended it to me to help me understand why some people act the way they do and to understand the nature of evil. Well, to understand at least one kind of evil. It is a book that is easy to understand, but hard to read because the truths in it are hard and some of the evil that is described there resides in all of us. I just bought two copies of the book to send to our kids.

I plan to read it again myself. I am certainly not immune to the evil described in this book. I recommend it very highly (the book, not the evil).

Betty Blonde #482 – 06/10/2010
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Ancient coins

My buddy John from Texas bought a handful of ancient coins. I think he mostly bought them out of curiosity and for fun. At any rate he sent me some pictures of them last night. He has been enjoying trying to figure out what they are, where they are from and how to clean them up with out wrecking them. I have to admit, it looks fun and educational. I also have to admit, I am a little envious. I might buy a handful myself. He thinks he has identified the coin with the box around it on the left as from the reign of Ptolemy III in Egypt which means it is way old. It seems like there is some Greek and Roman stuff in there, too. He will know a lot more about it after he has cleaned them up and figured out what is on them. Here they are:

Ancient coins from the top

Ancient coins from the side

Betty Blonde #481 – 06/09/2010
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All the girl cousins in Mexico on Grandma Conchita’s 70th birthday

All the girl cousins in Mexico
For posterity, I thought it would be nice to put up a picture of all of Kelly’s and Christian’s girl cousins in Mexico with Grandma Conchita on her 70th birthday.

Betty Blonde #480 – 06/08/2010
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New books for Christian

Christian's new Real Analysis bookLate last night, Christian sent Lorena a Snapchat that reminded me my mind is not as able as it used to be, In some ways, I think that is a good thing–there are lots of good things I can still learn without hurting my brain. He was genuinely excited about it and, having seen this before, I know he will actually read the thing and to the bulk of the exercises. What a great thing. It inspires me to dive back into a learning project or two. In that regard, I found a new Predictive Analytics tool this weekend called RapidMiner that I want to learn how to use. It really looks like the learning curve is not too steep and it is something I could use every day in my job.

So, thanks for the inspiration Christian. I a looking forward to this.

Betty Blonde #479 – 06/07/2010
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A remarkable mother-in-law

Grandma Conchita turns 70.
This is a photo of Grandma Conchita after church with her two oldest grandchildren the last time she visited Raleigh before we moved to Oregon. She turns 70 today. It is hard for me to express what an incredible gift it is to have her as a mother-in-law. Both Conchita and Grandpa Lauro treated me as one of their own before Lorena and I considered getting married. I know of no one who knows her who is not grateful that Grandma Conchita is in their life, too. Everything bad you have heard about how mothers-in-law treat their sons-in-law is the exact opposite of how I have ever been treated by Grandma Conchita. Thank you for everything Conchita and Happy, Happy Birthday to a great and kind lady.

Betty Blonde #478 – 06/06/2010
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Who owns the definition of what it means to be “Latino?”

I have been disabused of the notion that “journalists” at the New York Times are anything other than doctrinaire race-baiters for a long time, but it is nice to be reminded now and again why I quit reading them a couple of decades ago. As a member of a Hispanic majority family we have experienced, up close an personal the whole “your not really a Mexican unless you are a liberal value, anglo-male hating victim” (see here and here for a couple of examples). The abjectly racist article in the Times is described in an article by RedState titled New York Times Says Ted Cruz and Marco Rubio Are Not Latino. Enjoy.

Betty Blonde #477 – 06/04/2010
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Keeping busy helps me stay sane

Lorena back to SeattleLorena is off to Seattle again to give Kelly a hand while she is in the race up to the delivery of an oral presentation of a big paper based on her research. I am stuck here by myself to steam over the election. I am glad I have too much stuff to do to pay much attention to the politics. All the news people who made unequivocal statements about what would happen at the Iowa Caucuses are now making just as unequivocal statements about what will happen at the primaries in New Hampshire and South Carolina. They were completely wrong about Iowa and continue to double down by making a bigger deal out of the third place finisher than the winner who got the greatest amount of votes in Republican history of the event. We will see what happens next, but I am pretty happy I am so busy I cannot pay a whole lot of attention.

Betty Blonde #476 – 06/02/2010
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All you need to know about the Iowa Caucuses

Red State has an excellent article up on the Iowa Caucuses in particular and politics in general. This article resonates with me very, very much. It is titled Everything that you read today on Iowa is going to be nonsense. Including this. It has a list of truths about this and most other elections. I am going to try to remind myself to return to this article throughout this current election season. Maybe it will help me not to go (completely) insane over the doings of it all. Here are a couple of points I really liked, but all of them are very good:

  • Do not fall in love with politicians. Ever. You can like them, you can give them money, you can stump for them, you can even buy one a beer if you’re feeling generous – but never, ever, ever fall in love with one, because you will either end up regretting it, or you will end up being one of those sad, lonely people who everyone selectively avoids.
  • Political activism is no substitute for a genuine feeling of self-worth.

NCSU drinks the Kool-Aid of “sustainability”

My buddy, Mark the Physicist sent me an article about NCSU the other day that made me sad. It seems NCSU wants to ram a hard left wing environmental agenda down the throats of their students. NCSU has its challenges with political correctness that I have documented in a limited way on this blog, but by and large, our kids got an excellent education there. If this kind of nonsense continues to be adopted the kind of education our kids received will disappear quickly. Here is a quote from the article:

Currently, incoming NC State freshmen are required to attend sustainability “orientation.” The university offers a B.S. in environmental sciences, which has a strong sustainability emphasis and teaches students to “recognize the economic and sociopolitical ramifications of the environment.” Numerous courses, as well as workshops and continuing education programs, incorporate sustainability themes. And student support appears to be strong; recently, under the aegis of the administration, student groups were able to ban the use of plastic bags at campus stores. If last week’s town hall meeting was any indication, however, there is a contingent of university leaders, professors, administrators, and students that wants to ratchet up sustainability even more.

There were calls to: create a first-year general education course based solely on sustainability; “train” faculty, staff, and students to be more aware of social and environmental justice issues; and require incoming freshmen to read sustainability books (that’s already happening; last year, incoming students read Jay Erskine Leutze’s environmental justice-themed Stand Up That Mountain). There also was a suggestion to add a sustainability statement to all course syllabi to indicate NCSU’s commitment to the cause. Other proposals were more radical: one person wants to “re-brand NC State as a less conservative and more activist-minded school” and another wants to have sustainability advocates visit local K-12 schools to “plant the seed” of sustainability.

There is hope in North Carolina in spite of this kind of nonsense. A recent article over at Town Hall written by Mike Adams explains how some of the shameful behavior practiced by one North Carolina University has started to be rolled back by the new, more enlightened leadership. Maybe they could now turn their attention to North Carolina State University before it is too late. If they are not careful, they could go the way of the State of Oregon.

Betty Blonde #476 – 06/02/2010
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