"In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world." –John 16:33

Year: 2014 Page 7 of 13

Thankful for big life changes that cause us to think about the big picture

Lorena and Conchita after the funeral

There were lots of big changes going on in our lives before my wife Lorena’s father died last week.  The kids were scheduled to move away from home to college on the other side of the country, we planned to sell the house in North Carolina to move closer to my work in Arizona, Lorena was to start back to school to finish her degree, and we had quite a lot of travel planned to help deal with my father’s Alzheimer’s disease.  We believed we had thought all of this stuff out very well, but things can change quickly. First we decided not to sell the house because nothing was opening up for us either with respect to the sell or our efforts to find a new place in Arizona.  Next Lorena’s father died. Now we are in the process of rethinking our rethinking.  God has his hand in everything and we are thankful for that.

Betty Blonde #130 – 01/14/2009
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Video: Singing solos after Grandpa Lauro’s funeral (2 of 4) – Kelly sings How Can I Keep from Singing

Betty Blonde #129 – 01/13/2009
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The never ending carne asada

Here is a nice picture of Kelly and her Tío Lynn at one of the many carnes asadas since Grandpa Lauro’s funeral. This one was at Tío Jorge’s casa del rancho near Allende en Loma Prieta, Nuevo Leon.
Kelly and Lynn at Tío Jorge's ranch cottage

Betty Blonde #128 – 01/12/2009
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Video: Singing solos after Grandpa Lauro’s funeral (1 of 4)

Everyone should aspire, sometime in their life, to attend a funeral like Grandpa Lauro’s.  It was truly a celebration of the life of a great man as well as a victory in finishing well–the way our Lord wants us to finish.  There is too much to tell and I will not even try, but I thought it might be nice to put up a few videos of the carne asada at Grandpa Lauro’s recently departed mother’s home.  Our dear friend Omar Tamez was very kind to sing for us.  The video that accompanies this post is about Mexico and shows the atmosphere of the event.  On another day, I plan to post one more by Omar, a favorite of Grandpa Lauro’s, O Sole Mio, and a couple by Kelly, Danny Boy, another Grandpa Lauro favorite and a Hymn, How Can I Keep from Singing.  Here is the first:

Betty Blonde #127 – 01/09/2009
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Grandpa Lauro passed away this morning

On behalf of the entire Pedraza family, we want to let everyone know that Don Lauro (Grandpa Lauro) passed away this morning at 7:00 AM, quietly in his sleep. We are very grateful for all the support we have received during this difficult time. We are thankful for his faithfulness to God and are looking forward to celebrating his life at the visitation later this afternoon and at his funeral tomorrow. Lauro was born on 1942, made a profession of faith in God in 1960, and died at age 71 in Monterrey.

Off to Mexico

Flying to Mexcio - Don Lauro's strokeRaleigh June 8, 2014 – I write this from the RDU airport as Kelly, Christian, and I wait to get on a plane to join Lorena in Mexico.  Lorena’s dad, Grandpa Lauro is in a grave condition to which there might not be a good outcome. We have someone at the house while we are gone, my boss said to take whatever time I need, and we have many people praying and communicating their concern to us.  We are very thankful for our family, friends, and colleagues.

Raleigh June 8, 2014 – We are in Mexico now.  An incredible number of people were at the hospital in Monterrey in support of Grandpa Lauro.  We were there maybe six hours and there were always at least twenty or thirty in attendance–not in the room with Lauro because his condition is so bad, but in the waiting room.  There were at least a hundred different people who came and visited and left.  There were many others who had come in the four or five days before we got there.  Some of the same ones come every day.  This in amazing credit to Lauro’s community–I have never seen anything quite like it.  We feel truly honored to be a member of this community. We still do not know whether Lauro will make it, but we continue to pray for him.  All your prayers are greatly appreciated.

Betty Blonde #126 – 01/08/2009
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OK. Now I am really inspired to write a book

My friend and colleague, Dr. Brad, read my last several blog posts and sent me a couple of awesome links.  If I was not inspired before to write a book, I am really inspired now.  My expectations are getting calibrated in a very good way–the audience for my writing will probably consist of family, friends, and those who have share my kind (not level) of educational values.  If my kids get famous after I am dead, I might get a bump then.

So, Brad found a couple of links that could be an absolute blast.  The best of which is the National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo).  People have a competition to write the best possible novel in a month.  Even better it is November which coincides with Movember.  I could get TOTALLY inspired to take a month off, grow a moustache, and write a novel.  Seriously!  Brad has some friends who have actually participated in this.  I am definitely going to have to consult with him on this.  Of course, if one competes in an event like this, one of these seems almost essential.

But, it does not stop there.  Brad also set me links to SOFTWARE WRITING TOOLS.  These are the Tim Allen power tools of the writing set.  Actually they look very cool and, for an engineer turning to writing, they might help me consider things and organize my efforts in ways I had never considered.  Brad especially liked the Scrivener tool and I do, too.

The only thing left now is to start participating in a writing community and get started.

Betty Blonde #125 – 01/07/2009
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So how does one start to write a book

I have been giving quite a bit of thought to this book thing and have decided I will start to take this off line until I have a plan a little bit better formulated. I think I do have something to say about homeschool.  There are some pretty broad categories of homeschool styles.  We fit into a pretty specific category when it comes to educational style and goals and another with respect to worldview training.  We know a lot of homeschoolers, but only one other family we met in Texas fits into a similar model to our own. They have experienced the same kind of success as us.  I talk about “kind of success” as opposed to “level of success” because we think people who follow different models achieve very high levels of success, often much higher than our own, but with different goals in mind.

I plan to write about the model we followed.  The funny deal, looking back, is that we had a fairly well established plan for what we wanted to accomplish within a few weeks or months after we reestablished ownership of our children’s education.  It would be interesting to understand whether other successful homeschoolers established the model they would follow early or if there was significant evolution of the model over time.  I plan to report back now and again as things progress, but to write about other projects and ideas until I start to actually have something a little more concrete on this subject.

Betty Blonde #124 – 01/06/2009
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Still forming ideas on how (and if) to write a book

Luke and Gene both made good comments about my ambition to write a book about our family’s educational experience.  Both Luke’s thought that not so many people would want to read the thing and Gene’s thought that such an effort is a fine thing to do for future generations of his own family seem exactly right to me.  I have to admit I was a little offended about the idea that not too many people would want to read my book, but on reflection I think it is true.  We, like other homeschoolers, took our own unique path in educating our children.  I suppose there are parts of they way we did it that will resonate with almost all homeschoolers, parts that only a few will like, and a lot that most will think ridiculous.  Even we think some of the stuff we did was ridiculous.

I think, though, that this will be a good exercise for me, for my family, and maybe for a handful of others who have similar values and educational goals.  My take-away from Luke’s and Gene’s comments are that I need to avoid doing this for any kind of selfish motive.  I mentioned in a follow-up comment to the previous post that I would write the book with the idea that I would print a dozen or so copies to give to the kids and for posterity, then give the book away as an e-book on this web site.  I think that is just about right.  I might charge a small fee for the e-book to either give away to an appropriate charity or create a small scholarship fund for homeschoolers, but it kind of depends on whether I think the book is even good enough to warrant that.

Maybe Gene and I can read each others efforts as we work our way through this.

Betty Blonde #123 – 01/05/2009
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Christian says I should write a book

As you might have noticed, I have been struggling for awhile trying to find a project that is separate from my day job, but that is interesting and somehow might make a contribution to something bigger than myself.  I have my GaugeCam project which meets all that criteria, but is really just more of the same kind of thing as my day job.  For a long time now, my son Christian has been encouraging me to write a book about our experience in trying to educate our kids. I never thought I had much to say about how other people should educate their children because we barely knew what to do with our own.  At the same time, we absolutely loved the whole process, had a modicum of success.

I have thought seriously about the idea of writing a book quite a bit over the last several weeks.  I have decided to put together an outline of what I might write, then determine whether I think someone might want to read that. If I think it might be interesting to other people, I will take the next step.  I always thought I would write something about our homeschool, but I do not think that will be the main focus of this effort.  Our educational path was more about getting our kids educated at as high a level as possible in accordance with our worldview.  It was less about which particular homeschool or traditional school methodology we used. So I believe this book would be a narrative more than a how-to.

Of course there will be big chunks about why we chose what we chose in terms of learning materials and methodology.  Sonlight, The Well Trained Mind, Mark Kistler’s Draw Squad, Singapore Math, and a lot of the materials we chose would rightly have to be a part of the narrative because of their great value in helping us to figure all of this stuff out and make the whole educational task tractable.  Still, this book would be a narrative about the particular path taken by a particular family.  We did what we did based on what our kids needed, the best knowledge we had at the time, time constraints due to work, how much money was available, etc., etc.

We felt like our educational path was successful for us.  We have no illusions that our children’s abilities and/or intelligence were greater than those of their peers. The were pretty good at some stuff, but very average at other stuff.  Still we experienced some success in our educational path to the point that Christian was able to skip high school to earn a BS degree in Applied Math at age 18 while Kelly skipped three years of high school to earn a BS degree in Statistics at age 20.  Both of them got funded PhD’s offers at tier one Universities which they accepted and will start this fall.

I have kept a record of our efforts on this blog for over ten years now.  The idea is to turn the blog into a narrative and fill in the many, many cracks where there is missing information to determine whether I might have a story that is interesting enough that someone might want to read it and maybe even use some of our ideas.

Betty Blonde #122 – 01/02/2009
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My day job is getting more interesting

After a year and a half of hard core travel to Arizona and Colorado, our first product is almost to the point where it can move into production. It is exciting and I wish I could say I will have a life after that, but here is an even more exciting, revolutionary really, in the pipeline. I have worked on a lot of products, but none that has a chance to be a true game changer on the level of this next product.  So it does not look like I will slow down much through the end of the year, but I expect not to have to travel so much.  Wow!  This is exciting.  I will talk about it when I can.

Betty Blonde #121 – 01/01/2009
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Back to work on GaugeCam


I have finally gotten a chance to spend an hour or two on GaugeCam.  I really did not have the time, but was so burnt out on everything else, I took a little time after dinner last night and fixed a few things.  Here is the blog post for the latest update.  The video shows what I did.  It used to take three or four clicks of the mouse to calibrate the water level measurement system.  Now it only takes one.  You can see it in the video above.

I have decided I am going to spend some more time on this over the next few months until Lorena and I have had a chance to figure out what we will do next. More and more people are getting interested in it and we keep thinking of new things to improve. It should be fun.

Betty Blonde #120 – 12/31/2008
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Thinking it through takes time

I leave a pair of dress shoes and a Bible in my desk drawer at work so I do not have to haul them back and forth between Raleigh and Prescott. I do almost all of my Bible reading these days either on my computer or on my phone. So, when I am in Prescott, I run into work to grab my Bible and change into my dress shoes before I go to meeting. As is my morning habit, I grab a cup of hot Joe at the hotel on my way through the lobby. It is pretty good coffee, not that that is so important to me. Hot and bitter is about all I ever need. So that is why I find myself sitting at my desk at work in Prescott drinking a nice cup of coffee and writing on my blog as I wait to go to meeting.

Meeting is over for the family out on the East Coast.  Lorena and the kids are all together in the Atlanta area to attend the festivities around our friend Hannah’s high school graduation.  It surely sounds like they are having a great time.  The cool part is that Hannah will head out to Flagstaff to go to school in the fall and her parents have a house in the Phoenix area, so Christian will have some additional friends in the area when he moves out here.

I have quite a bit of alone time over the last few days and have to admit I have been somewhat frantic about figuring out what to do next.  We will be very busy for the next couple of months because we have to get the kids moved out West to their colleges, but after that things will slow down pretty dramatically. With now formal responsibilities for the kids homeschool or college anymore, it surely seems like I will have too much time on my hands. I see that slowdown coming fast and it has had me worried, but it dawned on me while I was drinking my coffee that it probably makes sense to take a little time and think about it before I jump into any new big projects.

I realize that I have a couple of really big work projects (GaugeCam and my day job), I am not going to be completely unoccupied. Lorena has stuff she wants to do, too.  She is getting very close to her degree and she might want to go to work or start a business.  At any rate, we have a big cross-country drive in the plans so we will certainly have a chance to talk.  I think we just need to slow down a little, drink some coffee together in the morning and take a little more time to do a little more planning than usual to help us decide what to do next.  I am not so good at taking things slow, but it seems like the right thing to do now.  It seems like a luxury really–when I take the time to smell the coffee and think about it.

Betty Blonde #119 – 12/30/2008
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New projects

I got started on my own list of “what to do next” today. Beside home improvement, travel to see family, hanging out with Lorena and reading of books, there are only a few things that require much planning. Even those things are things that would probably be better planned by someone else. In fact, I can think of only two projects that seem interesting right now and they are really holdovers from homeschool.  The are:

  • GaugeCam water level finding project
  • Comic aggregation program in python for Kelly

I am definitely going to have to do better than that.  I will try to keep thinking about it.

Betty Blonde #118 – 12/29/2008
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The end of 1000 days

Day 1000 of 1000

Done.  I read a few chapters extra this morning to adjust my attitude, finish the 1000 days well, and finish the second of three reads through the Old Testament that I started tracking on February 9, 2006.  Next, I will complete two reads through the New Testament.  It has been a great 1000 day run and I am glad I tracked it.  I have to think now what I want to do with both the blog and some goals for something good over the next four or five years.  By good, I mean something with spiritual value.  I have decided I am going to sit down with Lorena and think about it for several months after my current hard push to get the kids settled on their own out West at college and at work bringing our company’s first product to market.  Lorena has some stuff she wants to accomplish, so maybe “good” means focusing on her goals now that she has been such a great and selfless champion of her kids to get them where they are.

Betty Blonde #117 – 12/26/2008
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Changes in the changes

Day 998 of 1000

Life just got a little less complicated for Lorena and I.  Due to work and other considerations, we do not have to move from North Carolina, at least for the next few years.  The house comes off the market today!  We both felt a quite unexpected sense of relief.  An added benefit to the big changes are that I will finish my current phase of work in Prescott that has required me to be there 2-3 weeks per month in June or July.  After that, I will only need to be on the road one week at a time and I will be home on weekends.  In addition, I will need to go to Portland about every other trip to work with members of our image research team there. Throw me to the brier patch!

Betty Blonde #116 – 12/25/2008
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Our ten year plan is coming to a conclusion

Day 997 of 1000

Ten years ago, when we restarted our homeschool, we made a plan to get Kelly through college by 2014 followed by Christian in 2016.  We did it two year early because Christian finished two years early than our plan.  I only thought about it about once per year when I made the yearly plan for the next year’s homeschool and bought the books from Sonlight.  The plan was completely forgotten while we did the work of homeschooling. Now that we are at the end, it has dawned on me that we have not given much thought to what comes next.  Of course, I have my work, mortgage, and retirement to consider, but those are continuing things that require thought and readjustment on a regular basis when I change jobs, move, run into an unexpected expense, etc.  We have goals in all that, but they are just going to be part of life until I die, so I planning for that kind of thing is just part of the landscape.

Now though, Lorena and I have to figure out what we want to do next.  Does Lorena want to finish her degree or start a business or do both?  Do we want to live in Portland or Phoenix or Prescott or stay where we are? There are competing interests in all this.  The kids are both going off to graduate school on the west coast. We would like to be near them so we could see them on a very regular basis, but they are at the age to start making their own way without too much interference from us.  Are we thinking of moving just so we can be by them? Maybe.  But is that bad?  Maybe, maybe not. I thought life was going to get less complicated at this point, but it looks like I am wrong.

Betty Blonde #115 – 12/24/2008
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Returning to sanity after graduation

Day 995 of 1000

All the guests are gone back to Oregon.  Kelly is hard at work on her summer projects for her professor.  Christian has started preparation for his summer Partial Differential Equations graduate class.  Lorena is hard at work making sure the house is ready to show at a moments notice.  My flight to Arizona on Wednesday was delayed long enough that I had to fly out yesterday, promptly lost my luggage and am scheduled to work through the weekend.  In the midst of all this we are all trying to find new places to live out West and are finding out it is not that easy. Nothing really seems too settled right now.  We can all hardly wait to get back to more controlled lives.

Betty Blonde #115 – 12/24/2008
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Kelly receives her diploma from NCSU 2014

Day 994 of 1000

Kelly receives her diploma from NCSU 2014

Betty Blonde #114 – 12/23/2008
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Christian receives his diploma from NCSU 2014

Day 993 of 1000

Christian receives his diploma from NCSU 2014

Betty Blonde #113 – 12/22/2008
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