"In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world." –John 16:33

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On the way to San Jose

Christian and I drove up from Tempe to Gilroy, California yesterday. It was a nice drive. The purpose of the drive is to get Christian to Asilomoar to a conference so he can give a paper on Monday. He worked on some of the graphs in his presentation on the way up and we talked about everything under the sun. It dawned on me (again for the gazillionth time) that there is a whole lot of nothing between Bakersfield and Sacramento, California traveling up I-5.

Another thing I did not know is that the Rosebowl, NASA-JPL and The Art Center College of Design are a stones throw away from each other in Pasadena. The reason I know that now is I drank two of those really big bottles of Mountain Dew and had an immediate need to visit a restroom right about when we got to that part of Pasadena. Then we drove around not finding a bathroom for long enough to be able to make those observations.

Betty Blonde #419 – 02/23/2010
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A day at the beach with Christian

Christian flew up from Arizona to help us celebrate our 23rd wedding anniversary. We wanted to run up to Washington yesterday, but I had work commitments and we ended up going over to Depoe Bay for lunch. The Oregon Coast is an amazingly beautiful place, the leaves were in their fall colors and the sun was shining. We could not have had a better time. It was great to get caught up with Christian and his research which is now well beyond my ability to understand. I would love to take the time to dive into it, but seems to be getting more complex by the minute–the time commitment to learn it is probably now greater than the time and brain-cells I have left in my entire life.
Lorena and Christian at Lincoln City Oct. 12, 2015

Betty Blonde #411 – 02/11/2010
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Rubix is gone, but it makes for a more thoughtful birthday

Rubix studies with ChristianWe had to put Rubix down last night. Christian picked Rubix’s name and she was his cat. She was truly an amazing cat, totally devoted to Christian. In that way, she seemed almost like a dog. I wrote a post about how she used to lay across Christian’s arms while he typed on his computer at the bar in the kitchen in Raleigh. Here is a post about the cat tower Christian and I built for Rubix and Kiwi (the other of the twin cat sisters) as a homeschool project with a picture of Rubix on the top shelf. This is probably my favorite post on the subject a year or two after we had moved to Raleigh. We are not one of those families that anthropomorphizes animals–well, not too much anyway, but we have had a great discussion about life, death and and the greatness of the gift of God’s creation.Rubix and Christian at the computerSometimes we get so rapped up in our own issues we forget the bigger picture.

Rubix sleeps with Christian

I turned sixty today. Rubix’s passing has been a gift in that it has put the whole aging thing in a good context. I love being this age. I am really not one of those people who laments getting a year older. It is a choice and a gift to love the age you are and realize your place in the whole scheme of things. Lorena and I looked at some old pictures of me when I was a boy and a you man that she dug out of a box she brought along with us in the car on our drive to Portland from Raleigh. I made the comment that those pictures, even if they are well preserved, are not going to be too meaningful to anyone in not too many years. If/when Kelly and Christian have kids, they might get a kick out of looking at them a time or two during their life, but the pictures will be pretty meaningless to the generations after that. It just made me cognizant of the importance of embracing the opportunities we have to do the right thing in the here and now.

P.S. Rubix loved Kelly, too.
Kelly and Rubix

Betty Blonde #406 – 02/04/2010
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Japan shuts down liberal arts programs at universities so they can better serve society

The headline says it all. This article describes something that should absolutely be duplicated around the world and especially in the United States. The article starts out like this:

Many social sciences and humanities faculties in Japan are to close after universities were ordered to “serve areas that better meet society’s needs”.

Of the 60 national universities that offer courses in these disciplines, 26 have confirmed that they will either close or scale back their relevant faculties at the behest of Japan’s government.

Betty Blonde #405 – 02/03/2010
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Christian’s gift finally arrives

He liked it!
Kitchen Knives for Christian's birthday

Betty Blonde #403 – 02/01/2010
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Seas of mangoes

Sea of mangos
Lorena is in Monterrey visiting family. I am really sad I cannot be there with her. It is especially depressing because there are virtual seas of ripe mangoes in all the stores right now. The price shown in the image is is per kilo in pesos. Unless you have lived the dream of endless ripe Manilas until you get sick (it is worth it), you would not understand.

Betty Blonde #402 – 01/29/2010
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Lorena goes to Monterrey

Right after Lorena left for Monterrey, her name was put on the board at our fitness center as one of the most active members in the club! Going to Mexico to eat great Mexican food non-stop with little access to a gym will not help, but she deserves a little break.

Betty Blonde #401 – 01/28/2010
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What to do after you earn a PhD at a young age

I read a very interesting blog named the Bayou Renaissance Man. I like it because the writing is great and the blogging approach (if you squint your eyes really hard) is somewhat similar to my own. To say the blog topics are eclectic is a fairly large understatement and there is some interesting windmill tilting crusades going for which I have no dog in the fight, but that are fun and interesting. So today, he had an article titled A Fascinating Look at the Shrinking Value of Higher Education. It makes some comments and points to an article at the Captain Capitalism blog (that I have now marked and plan to visit regularly) titled The Music School Bubble. The posts are a topic that is dear to our hearts, the higher education bubble and the best way to educate one’s self to get a job as opposed to get a degree.

Just last night, Christian and I had a vigorous conversation about this specific topic. He will be in a fairly unique situation in that he is on track to finish his PhD in Electrical Engineering by the time he is 22 or 23. It is not too early to try to figure out what should come next. I have tried to recommend that since he is so young, he expand his education into a completely different area. He has Applied Math and Electrical Engineering so maybe some academic work in Chemistry or Materials Science or even Biology might combine well with that. He countered by saying that classes often get in the way of his learning these days. He likes his classes and the material in them, but believes he can understand it faster by reading the literature and working with people who understand it.

Here is a quote from the article that got me to thinking Christian’s career might be much better served by getting out there and getting going on what he wants to actually do than just spending more time in academia for the prestige of it all:

I believe that being a full time musician who plays live (and/or in the studio) is the greatest badge of honor a musician can bestow upon himself. Why? Because it’s proof you can beat the odds. It shows you have no need for the “stability” of teaching music. See, we all think we need to be teachers because that is what MUSIC SCHOOLS tell us. They have a large stock in keeping interest in becoming a music teacher, for it keeps them employed, and the cycle continues. As of today, it’s spiraled out of control. Our families all want us to be teachers because they figure it’s the closest thing to a “real job” that a musician can have. It’s a lot safer than playing in bars, touring, and all of those “lifestyle” things that many people think are part of a music career.

Christian had the opportunity to go to Stanford or UCSD for that kind of a boutique degree, but chose to go with a professor who had actually worked at the highest levels of his field in industry at a premier research institution, only returning to academia much later in his career.  The higher education is much less pronounced in the STEM fields, but having worked on the commercialization of technology from top tier engineering schools, I am convinced more than ever that the vast bulk of technological advancements in all but a few arenas are coming out of industry, not academia. The knowledge that new engineers coming out of supposedly great school with difficult STEM degrees will need to start from ground zero to be trained for several years before they become useful is disheartening.

These are just observations. I do not know the answer for anyone on any of this. I just know that vast amounts of time and money spent in academia would be much more well spent in the real world if the desired result is to prepare people for jobs, real life and an understanding of how to contribute to society at large.

Betty Blonde #399 – 01/26/2010
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Grandpa Milo’s 86th birthday

Grandpa Milo was born just a few weeks before the big stock market crash of 1929. He was the eighth of ten children and was born on the kitchen floor of Otis’s and Ethyl’s home in Saginaw, Oregon just a few years after the family had moved out from Lynch, Nebraska in 1925. Grandpa Milo was the first member of the family to be born in Oregon. We plan to pick him and Grandma Sarah up for church this morning (and afternoon) so hope to get a few pictures, maybe even with a birthday cake.

Betty Blonde #385 – 01/06/2010
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Brien Holden passes away

I received a phone call from my friend John last night to inform me the founder of the Brien Holden had passed away. I worked with John for one of Brien Holden’s companies for a couple of years and spoke with Brien just a couple of times. He led a very interesting life and worked hard to improve the vision care of people who had very little opportunity for it. He actually did a lot of good and put an organization in place that should continue his work now that he is gone. I am pleased to have an affiliation with them and am very sorry for his loss. It just made me reflect on the shortness of life and the need to spend every minute possible in ways that will accrue to the good, especially to the eternal good.

Converting fully back to Oregonians

Washington driverWe are slowly removing all semblances of our time in Raleigh. Christian got his Arizona drivers license several months ago, but Kelly did not get her Washington drivers license until yesterday. She did not even have to take a written test. Lorena and I will take the Oregon drivers license test either this week or next. That will be followed by the registration of our cars in our respective states. One of the only happy money related events in moving to Oregon from North Carolina is that we do not have to pay any sales taxes on our cars when we change the registration.

The only thing left now is to figure out where we want to live and move our stuff out of storage to wherever that is. This thing of living in a studio apartment has been very good for us. We threw a lot of stuff away when we moved out of the North Carolina house. We will almost certainly throw out a ton more when we move the stuff from storage to our new house. We are getting to the point where we are ready to start thinking about starting to think about looking for a house if we can ever figure out where we want that to be.

Betty Blonde #377 – 12/25/2009
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Kelly, Lorena and the gringa aunts have breakfast

Lorena and Kelly have breakfast with Aunt Julia and Aunt JeanI always get slightly nervous when Lorena and Kelly hang out too much with my sisters. For the first two years of our marriage in Florida I had Lorena pretty well convinced that Walmart was much classier for shopping than the mall. Julia and Jean completely wrecked her with respect to that within 50 milliseconds after we moved back to Oregon. This morning, they all went down to Biscuits Cafe in Wilsonville together while I had breakfast with Harold and Curt Nichols, Jeff Cloyd and Justin (that, incidentally, was very, very nice). Now I am waiting for the latest bombshell that the J aunts dropped on them. Thankfully, Lorena has figured out that most of the stories told by the Chapmans are only very roughly based on the truth.

Still, Kelly looks entirely too attentive in this picture. She is down for the weekend. She has an old computer that has been dropped, the battery is about dead and a lot of other stuff is wrong with it. I found a Dell Outlet coupon and got her a great computer for less than $600 so that was a very good thing. Kelly has a big meeting with her professor on Monday to show that she made herself useful so far this summer so she is spending the day in the coffee shop studying. In the meantime, Christian has a monster presentation to make to people who are funding his research at MIT Lincoln Labs next Thursday. He has great research results to show them, but spent so much time getting the results right, he has not had enough time to prepare or practice the presentation yet. He flies to Boston on Wednesday, gives the presentation on Thursday and flies home on Friday.

Betty Blonde #373 – 12/21/2009
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Hurricanes, earthquakes and Mexican food

Lorena's hurricane preparationAn article in an East Coast rag known for employing the odd plagiarist, describes an earthquake that is expected to hit the Pacific Northwest that reminded me of some of Lorena’s hurricane preparations when we lived in Raleigh. The picture to the left is a pretty typical representation of her efforts. Notice at least half of the essential food groups are included in the stuff behind the water stores–tomatoes, chiles, avocados, onions and sour cream. That is what is needed to make salsa, the other main food groups being refried beans and tortilla chips.

Last night, Lorena made her signature fish tacos, but was not sure whether our dinner guests would be happy with that so she went down to the local Mexican food store/restaurant and bought fresh tortillas. While she was there, she made friends with a lady working at the store who told her they made barbacoa every day. So she bought some barbacoa. Her reaction when she opened the barbacoa at home was that if did not look right.

She smelled it, tasted it and said, “They did it wrong.”

I tasted it and it was awesome, just not exactly like the kind they make in Monterrey. Everyone but Lorena loved it. It is probably a good thing Lorena does not like it because it would definitely kill my diet if we had it in the house on a regular basis. Our visitors, Doyle, David and Kelly ate several tacos of both flavors: fish and barbacoa. It was all good enough that I went backwards a little on my diet, but today is another day. Well, at least it is another day if the big earthquake does not hit.

Betty Blonde #372 – 12/18/2009
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Christian and Kelly on their own

Lorena picks Christian up from the train coming back from 2015 Fourth of July in Seattle with KellyLorena picked Christian up at the train station yesterday. He had gone up to Seattle to visit Kelly for the Fourth of July weekend. The kids have now been paying their own way and living on their own for a year. I think the transition has been harder for Lorena and I than for the kids. It is also interesting to see them create lives separate from each other. The demographics of the people with whom the associate are completely different.

The funny deal is that, even though Kelly is older than Christian, the difference in age between Kelly and the people in her graduate program is quite a bit greater than the difference in age between Christian and the people with whom he works in his research lab. PhD Marketing students tend to start with a Bachelors degree in Business, then go out and get 3-5 years experience followed by an MBA before they apply to PhD programs. That puts most of the ones starting the program close to age 30. The difference in age between them and Kelly is generally around ten years.

Christian works in an important lab where the professor advises both graduate and undergraduate students. With a few exceptions, the graduate students have gone straight from their undergraduate degree to start a Masters or PhD at around age 23 or 24. The undergraduate students tend to be juniors and seniors so they are usually at least 20 or 21. If Christian had taken the normal trajectory, the upcoming year would be his sophomore year as an undergraduate, so he is only one or two years younger than the undergraduate students and four to six years younger than the graduate students.

When Kelly studied Statistics and Christian studied Math and they all knew the same kids at school, their social situations were pretty similar. Now, with Kelly in a Business program and Christian in an Engineering program at schools over a thousand miles apart, their social situations are very different from each other and they are very much on their own. We never thought about it at the time, but the fact that they would lose both the infrastructure of living at home with Dad and Mom and going to school with each other every day magnified their changes.

We have been very pleasantly surprised that this has been a very positive change for both of them. Of course their are hiccups, but they both do well and enjoyed the chance to get together for a long weekend. Still, they were glad to get back to their own lives when it was over.

Betty Blonde #363 – 12/07/2009
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Merle

Christian on train to Seattle June 2015This is a little bit of a housekeeping post. Christian came up from Tempe a couple of days ago to visit us for the week around the Fourth of July holiday. He bought a really nice Lenovo laptop computer with a 17″ screen with some of the grant money they gave him to attend Arizona State. The computer was great with a super fast processor and a great GPU, but it did not fit into his backpack very well and the trackpad was not really a great one. My computer on the hand had a 14″ screen which is not so great for my old eyes and a much less powerful GPU. Because I only use the laptop infrequently as a laptop–I use it more as a desktop with a separate mouse connected to it via a docking station–we decided to switch. Both of us think we got the better deal. I think that is the way it is supposed to be.

We took Christian to the train station this morning to run up to Seattle to hang out with his sister for some kind of shindig or something. He left just in time to miss a visit from our favorite government school teacher, Trisha. It is a good thing. Some might believe that it is a good thing because we have very little room in our studio apartment, but the real reason it is a good thing is that he will not be here for the bad influence of Lorena’s notorious father, Merle. You would think that the combination of the stellar Trisha and her (very) saintly mother Carolyn would offset the influence of just one guy, but you would only think that if you had never met Merle. I think it was his dear Mother (also very saintly and still driving at age 95) who said that the highest level he might ever aspire to attain would be couth and if he did ever get there, it would be just barely. Pictures to follow. If I can bear it.

Betty Blonde #361 – 12/03/2009
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Rainbow People meet resistance from Lakota activists

I got a huge kick out of an article in The Daily Beast titled Lakota Warriors Vow to Crush Dirty Rainbow Hippies. It is a story about a group of nebulously organized “free spirits” who plan to descend on Lakota territory in South Dakota. The real free spirits appear to be the Lakota activists protesting the event. There are some quite colorful descriptions of some of the protests in the article. This quote kind of describes the big picture:

The free spirits are planning to dig toilet trenches and occupy the Black Hills at the height of the Lakota ceremonial season. “I’ve talked to several Rainbow people who I believe try to be decent human beings,” Clark said. “And then there’s a whole messload of them who—pardon my language—are totally freaking whacked.”

Swan and Joelle say it’s particularly disturbing that the Rainbow Family has no leaders, and no one is really accountable. They pointed to reports that one of the group’s hippie pow-wows cost taxpayers $500,000 in law enforcement and forestry management in 2013.

To prevent any waves of destruction, the Forest Service sends incident management teams from Washington, DC to the Rainbow Gathering every year to supplement local law enforcement.

The article describes the drugs, polluting, aggravated battery, murder and aggravated assault that appear to have been features of previous events planned by the Rainbow Family of Living Light. My ideas on the Rainbow People are not dissimilar to those of the Lakota activists:

“We’ve gotten some [Rainbow people] saying you need to come out here and experience the hippie love,” the Lakota activist Clark told The Daily Beast. “Peace, love, we want to be your friend and respect your people. No, we don’t trust you any more than the government—possibly less.”

Betty Blonde #359 – 12/01/2009
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Brilliant marketing strategy

This, I think, is a brilliant marketing strategy. It was the funniest thing I read all day. And that is after posting my favorite math joke. A quote from the article:

When one Chinese technology vendor, Qihoo, launched a new Wi-Fi router with a safety setting for “pregnant women,” a rival vendor took offense to the implication that their routers might be dangerous.

I think our new blog slogan should be “The blog that is so carefully written, it does not cause cancer.”

Father’s Day 2015 without the kids: McMenamins and Grandpa Milo

Father's Day 2015 without the kids at McMenamins in WilsonvilleLorena and I planned to work out this evening. We walked to breakfast, walked to lunch and we planned to go to the gym and work out before dinner, but we just did not have it in us. Instead, we ran across the parking lot to McMenamins and split an aboslutely fabulous hamburger and some ancho chicken chile soup. We completely blew our diet, but it was absolutely worth it. This is the first Father’s Day in a long time when we have been without the kids. In addition, we have Grandpa Milo duty (Alzheimer’s stuff for all those who have dealt with it and understand) tomorrow for our church meeting and dinner afterward.

I have to say Lorena and I had a great time. Christian is down in Tempe studying his fanny off. Kelly is up in Vernon, British Columbia hanging out with a boat load of young people when she really should be studying her fanny off, but we approve. She needs to be doing that kind of thing and Christian really should be doing that kind of thing, too. It was a great evening that I hope to remember for a long, long time even though my Dad’s memory problems makes me realize that memories are things we should cherish, not only because they are good memories, but a gift from a loving God. 

Betty Blonde #351 – 11/19/2009
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Visiting Albany for the first time in seven years

Cluster Oaks house in Albany 2015I am administering some research my company is funding in the new Robotics program at Oregon State University so Lorena and I ran down to Corvallis this morning. We got there way to early so we decided to run by our old house on Cluster Oaks Dr. in North Albany. We had not been back there for over seven years. The place looks amazing. The trees we planted have shown dramatic growth. The new owners of the house painted the porch posts a really ugly maroon color and changed the fence line, but other than that, the house looks similar to the way it looked when we left. The corner feature to deal with the services in the corner of the property still looks great. We would have liked to see the stamped concrete patio Grandpa Milo put in the back yard for us and also the beautiful kitchen, but we had to get moving to our meeting. The amazing part about the whole neighborhood are all the trees Grandpa Milo gave to everyone. They are growing and growing and growing. It will be even more amazing in another seven years.

Betty Blonde #350 – 11/18/2009
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Man of steel

Krispy Kreme
I just wanted everyone to know that I saw this on the counter of the kitchen at work which means it was available to whoever got there first–three quarters of a Krispy Kreme donut. I passed it up. I almost fainted just from the smell of it, but I passed it up. I am really wondering whether life is worth living anymore if I have to give this kind of thing up.

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