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Day 152 of 1000

Kelly is drawing again!  You can see it all here.  This makes me happy.  She is getting killed at school so we finally decided she did not have time to do a Betty Blonde comic strip every day.  That made us pretty sad.  She has such an interest college life magnified by her acute sense of what is interesting about the people with whom she spends her days that it is a shame she does not share that with others in her own unique way.

Finally, we came to the conclusion that she can draw up interesting caricatures, portraits, and written word studies while she is doodling in class or waiting for someone to pick her up.  So we are going to try to start posting some of that for awhile.  I LOVE the idea and think it will be great.  We had a great talk yesterday about the fundamental immorality of abortion and some other social ills.  I hope she writes about that, too.

I could not keep her from fashion if I wanted to, so I suppose she will blog about that, too.

UPDATE:  Kelly forcefully requested that I let everyone know that Betty Blonde is NOT dead and will spin back up as time avails.  It might be sooner.  It might be later.  It is definitely not over.

Day 151 of 1000 (207.3 lbs)

We are all driving a LOT these days.  I am working at least two days per week in Charlotte with some additional driving around the Carolinas and Virginia.  Lorena and Christian drive about forty minutes each way to Johnston Community College two days per week and we do all the normal drives to the grocery store and the YMCA.  Fortunately, that level of driving should diminsh fairly dramatically in 4-5 months.  At about that time, I will need to buy another car.  I cannot decide whether to give the kids the pick-up to drive to and from NCSU so I can get a cheaper car for my long drives or to give them the new (used) car to go to school and stick with the pickup.  I think I will probably give them the pickup.

Day 150 of 1000

A good buddy of mine who was hugely influential in my loving Mexico and Spanish so much is thinking about blogging about a big trip.  That is a FABULOUS idea.  It is especially fabulous right now because the webhosting service, FatCow.com Christian uses for his new stellar Nerdhow.net blog has a special going:  $3.97 per month for a year.  TruthHasAChance.com is also hosted there.  It is a great way to keep track of a lot of things like trips and special events or to talk about your hobby, work, or family, but I find it helps me to be more thoughtful by forcing me to consider something to write every day.  I try to write well and write fast at the same time.  It is kind of like my latest weightloss stunt–if I I want to hold my feet to the fire, a good way to do that is to do it in front of everyone.

Sometimes when I am angry, frustrated, or tired, I sit down to write about it, blast out something mean-spirited and hurtful, read what I wrote, then start over because I am ashamed.  I am almost always more ashamed for my thoughts and bad spirit than I am for the fact that someone might read what I am writing.  That makes me step back, choose to have a better spirit, and write something that edifies.  It also helps me focus my thoughts and make decisions about what to do next.  Over time, it has helped me not to dive into things without considering them a little more carefully because I have taken the time to write stuff down in a structured way.

Mostly I write this blog for me and to have a record our family and friends will enjoy later, but it is very, very cool when other people join the fray.  I have friends I have never met face to face.  I am astonished that some people are so much more thoughtful than I had anticipated and I am ashamed about that, too!

See, shaming myself into losing weight might be a good strategy for me.

Not much else to say.

Day 149 of 1000 (209.8 lbs.)

Note the weight!!!  I thought I was going to get killed, but I am doing OK.  The big news, though, is that Christian has started blogging again at his website Nerdhow.com (Nerdhow.net also works) that he got for his birthday and is hosted by FatCow (love the name, love the price, love the service).  He is putting a ton of his college notes up their with his signature (no pun intended) handwritten serif font.  He gets paid to take notes for his Differential Equations course so that is very cool.

P.S.  I will be in Wilmington at some Nuke plant on Wednesday.  Cool.  I wonder if it is anywhere close to Kendall.

Day 147 of 1000

I got into a big discussion with a good friend about sports this weekend.  I was a sports fanatic until I went to college.  In college, I was a Judo fanatic, but started to lose my enthusiasm for things like football and basketball.  I went to a few football games in college, but mostly just read the newspaper on Sunday so I could talk trash about the games on Monday.  That eventually evolved into consistent workouts with no interest in sports at all.  By the time Kelly and Christian came along I hit what I hope was a happy medium–I wanted my kids to get consistent exercise, but no desire for them to be as out of balance with sports as I.

Now, my involvement with sports involves talking trash about sports on Monday (of course I don’t watch the games, but get the scores on the internet).  The funny deal is that I derive much more joy in hating teams than liking them.  I really don’t like the Beavers anymore at all.   I don’t dislike them either.  They bore me.  Still, under the right circumstances I can be a fan, just not when I am with anyone from Oregon.  Well, that is not exactly true–Warren and I STILL have some great conversations about the Beavers, but that is more about hanging out with Warren than being a fan of the Beavers.  I derive much more joy hating the Ducks because, well, they are the Ducks.  The same can be said for many, many professional and college sports teams because the people who play the games lead such deplorable lives.  Tom Brady from New England is a case in point.

All of this brings me quite a bit of satisfaction because my daughter has become a big fan of football.  She does not like football for any other reason that Tim Tebow is doing his level best to lead an exemplary life, not to mention that he is handsome, kind, and hard working.  Very cool.  If she likes football because of model behavior, I can go with that.

Day 146 of 1000

I have worked in my new job for a month now.  It is (and will be) a crazy life for the next few months.  We live a three hour drive from the main office, so I only go there two days per week.  The company is a sales driven company so much of my work is in support of their efforts.  There is a person in charge of the machine vision sales support, but they need me to travel with the each of the sales guys for a day or two to get to know them.  That is why my life will be fairly crazy through the rest of the winter and into the spring.  We have already started to identify some bigger projects that will require development time in the office, so I can see a light at the end of the tunnel.

In the meantime, the kids and Lorena are blasting away at school.  We got some great new in that regard on Friday.  I will just repost Lorena’s Facebook entry here:

Well, I tried to decide whether or not to post this, but we are very happy for Christian right now. This semester he has a very heavy academic load (Differential Equations, Calculus based Physics II, Linear Algebra, and two other classes). It is a struggle to take such heavy classes, but we were encouraged today when we received the following letter:

As for the weight loss program, I am STILL on it, struggling mightily.  Between taking Lorena out for a birthday dinner, taking customers to lunch and eating on the road, I have some challenges, but I got in a good workout with Christian yesterday and found a gym in the hotel where I stay when I am at the home office, so I am sticking to the program and will post weights again on Wednesday!

Finally, Christian and I meet Andrew and François in the Biological and Agricultural Engineering lab at NCSU Saturday morning for the first time in several months.  There is some exciting opportunities at GaugeCam–more about that later.

Day 136 of 1000 (210.7 lbs.)

I was dreading getting on the scale again this morning, but I think my battle with the flu might have helped me a little.  Woo-hoo.  I made it through the holiday season and am actually down five pounds from when I started a month ago.  Since the month is December and my record is not good (actually it is remarkably bad) in December, I WILL TAKE IT!.  In the meantime, Kelly started back to school yesterday, Christian starts today, and Lorena starts on Monday.  For now, I will head up to Charlotte two days per week and work from home three days per week.  I read back through the last month or so of my blog posts.  Some of them were OK, but some of them were those “the weather is really nice here” kinds of posts that are not so acceptable.  I will work on it.

In the meantime, Warren has a nice post about his Uncle JC over at Truth Has a Chance.

Day 132 of 1000

It seems right to worship God on Sunday morning as the first act of 2012.

We win.

Day 130 of 1000. (Not weighing until January 5)

Count ’em. Not one but two driver’s licenses to play havoc with our insurance bill and college savings plan.

Day 126 of 1000 (212.2 lbs.)

Christian and I went down to the Hill Library at NCSU while everyone else went out to what is arguably the busiest day of the year at the mall.  Why anyone would do that is beyond my understanding.  Christian found that he has access to the computers in the library now that he has been accepted as a student for next fall.  We had a great time.  He worked on a physics animation and I worked on some code for my new job.  Then, we went to Wendy’s where we received to small Frosty’s for FREE because they brought one of the sandwiches late.  It does not get much better than that.

Day 125 of 1000 (212.2 lbs.)

I cannot believe that I weigh less today than I did yesterday.  We had TONS of good food sitting around all day including pizza and candy.  It must be the salad and the rigorous jigsaw puzzle assembly that kept the calorie input down and the calories burnt up.  Today is another BIG hurdle, what with the turkey sitting on the counter ready to cook as soon as we get home from meeting, not to mention the chocolate covered pretzels we are taking to eat after meeting.

Lauro and Conchita work on our annual holiday puzzle…

While Lorena, Kelly, and Christian make chocolate pretzels for meeting!

Day 124 of 1000 (no scale, but will weigh and post when I return home – 212.5 lbs.  Ouch but better than I thought)

Today, the kids and I will go shopping, just the three of us.  It should be a lot of fun.  This is not a normal year for me, as if any year is a “normal” year.  The job transition takes a lot of time and I will have to work and drive during much of the holiday.  I am glad Grandpa Lauro and Grandma Conchita are here.  We enjoy them a lot and it is nice for the family when I am so busy.  Hopefully it will all smooth out before too long.

Day 123 of 1000 (Blew it big time on Filipino food – it would have been ungracious not to!  I will weigh again tomorrow)

Our very, very good friends May G. (who works in China), Mary Lou G., and their mother from Albuquerque came to our house and made a TON of absolutely fabulous Filipino food.  We had quite a crowd.  We got to hear some great stories about China and Mongolia.  We sang some hymns.  It does not get much better than that.

Day 121 of 1000 (no scale, OK but not as good as yesterday)

Man, this shaming thing to get myself to lose weight is a GOOD thing.  I actually think of the fact that I am going to have to post about it the next day.  Last night I fell off the wagon just a little, but plan to get back on today.  It is hard not to snack during the 3-1/2 hour drive home to Charlotte.  I will just get a big soda which will tide me over.  I am now going home for the holidays and will only make one short trip to see a customer tomorrow.  Good deal.

Day 120 of 1000 (no scale, but doing good!)

I am over here in Charlotte again with my first trip to visit a customer on the schedule today.  It is a great little problem–pretty easy to solve, but pretty hard to solve fast.  We have a game plan we hope will work, but will have to execute perfectly.  In the meantime, Lorena and the kids are enjoying Grandpa Lauro and Grandma Conchita back in Raleigh.  It would be nice to be there, but it will also be nice to be there in a couple of days.  Hopefully, Kelly will have some of her drawings for me to put up when I get there.

I can now post here from my phone!  How cool is that!?!!