My brother-in-law, Lauro has had some pretty amazing jobs. Right now he runs a team of several groups of engineers located throughout Latin America. Right now, he is visiting a couple of those teams in Brazil. He and his family lived in Brazil a decade or so ago and he truly loves it there. All things considered, though, I think he has gotten to the point in his career (like I did), where travel is more of a chore if you are doing it for work. Sitting on airplanes for double-digit hours at a time with only work at the other end is pretty lonely and tiring. I am grateful to not be doing it so much anymore. Still, it can be enjoyable if one has a good group of people at the other end.
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This is the time of year when we have lots of turtles and rabbits in our yard. We are really hoping we will have them at our new house, but because it is in town, we are not so sure about it. We are close to a couple of fairly large parks by a lake so, if we do not have them at home, there is a good chance we will be able to see them when we walk. When we first got here, we found a really big turtle on our back porch which Lorena promptly painted with a red spot. We were hoping to see him come back and we have had lots of turtles, but none with a red spot.
Lorena and I had quite an amazing Mother’s Day yesterday. Both the kids called and we had long, interesting talks with them about life, plans, frustrations, and ambitions. Maybe there is no better Mother’s Day present than to have confidence your kids are on the right track with God. Lorena decided she wanted a steak for dinner so we drove into Granbury, had some baked chicken for lunch, and bought a steak. The dinner was the real deal, evidenced by our post-meal torpidity. Lorena plans to drive back into Granbury sometime today to switch the city water and electrical services over from the previous owner to us. It seems like we have moved from a potential path to an actual path on our plan to build the house even though selling our current house is a pretty big hurdle.
This image above was captured at Depoe Bay, Oregon on Mother’s Day, May 9, 2004. This was just a short few weeks before I started this blog when Christian was 8 and Kelly was 10. I started writing as a tool to help prepare for their third and fifth grade school years, having decide to pull them from the truly horrific Albany, Oregon public schools and homeschool them ourselves. The image below was captured on the North Carolina State University campus when Christian and Kelly graduated from college on Mother’s Day, May 10, 2014. The kids had skipped high school and graduated from college when Christian was 18 and Kelly was 20, large due to the dedication and support of their mother. Seeing these picture and reflecting on those times and places were a good reminders of what a spectacular mother and wife is Lorena.And beautiful, too–then and now.
Lorena was quite pleased to learn there is edible cactus growing on the new property. I was hoping it would be the type with the sweet tuna (cactus fruit), but it was not, so we will have to start that on our own. Fortunately, they do not take a long time to grow. We walked the property again today and, while it is not big in absolute terms, it really is about as big as we think we can handle. There is plenty of room for the house, some lawn, a garden, a small greenhouse, and an out building we want to use as a workshop.
It is Mother’s Day in Mexico (not until Sunday here in the USA) and we just signed off on a piece of property closer to town where we hope to build a house. There is a lot of work ahead, but some of it is the kind we really love and we can get through the rest with such a great end in mind.
We were supposed to have the kick-off meeting with our house designer this afternoon at 1:15, but we started getting tornado warnings pretty early in the morning so we bumped the meeting until 11. There was a little bit of a storm and a good amount of wind at the specified time, but thankfully, it passed us up.
The meeting was great. We had it at the designers house. He is just a little older than me and he and his wife have very similar ideas about what they want their house to be as Lorena and I. Of course, it is nice to think about all the great things that are possible and that is fun, but the disconnect between what one can afford and what is possible is often very wide. Fortunately, Lorena and I have done this enough times that we know where we want to spend a little more money and, mostly, where it is OK to skimp. We liked the designer a lot and are looking forward to working with him.
The closing for the property where we want to build a house in closer to town (within walking distance) is on Friday this week. The preliminary meeting with the house designer is tomorrow and, hopefully, our current house will go on the market before the end of next week. With all this happening so fast, Lorena was quite pleased that she could harvest this spectacular Texas sunflower to enjoy while we start to prepare the house for showing and, also hopefully, a move. Houses in this area are currently staying on the market for 2-3 months, but the traditional school year ends mid-May and the buying season kicks in because people want to get moved in time to enroll their kids properly into their new schools, so we have lots of hope that the house will sell within that 2-3 month time frame. We are doing a little bit of a balancing act because the house in Mexico where we want to live while the new house is being built is not quite ready for us.
Reading the Bible with Rabbi Jesus by Lois Tverberg arrived yesterday. It is a book Kelly’s boyfriend, Adam, gifted here. I think it will be a good companion book to go along with my current reading: Jewish Objections to Jesus by Dr. Michael Brown. I am not sure whether it is a scholarly book (it has some pretty heavy endorsers on the back cover) or a pastoral book–maybe somewhere in-between, but it certainly looks interesting. Time will tell. The (pretty big_ guy in the other picture was guarding the mailbox when I went out to pick up the book. Lorena and I love seeing the turtle, rabbits, and hares in our area during this time of year.
I am profoundly grateful for having earned my PhD at University of Nebraska-Lincoln (UNL). Like many American universities, they are experiencing moral and spiritual decay in many of their departments, but it seems like Nebraska, as a state, is ahead of the curve in combating that degradation. The experience of my graduation reset my view of the institution in a very good way. A way that prepared me to want to contribute transactionally, but as a volunteer. My experience of the people there was amazing. They were invariable of great, good will. I planned all along to continue working with my adviser, Troy, but this inspired me to think more globally–to contribute to the institution of UNL generally, and to the School of Natural Resources in particular. To that end, I asked Troy if he could make me an Adjunct Professor (unpaid). He started the lobbying and paperwork to do that several months ago. Some excellent people wrote me some excellent reference letters and now we are at the final decision point. If all goes well, I will be an Adjunct Professor at UNL before the end of May.
An insane amount of rain has been coming down in the middle of the country. Here in Texas, we have had consistent rain, day after day, for weeks, to the point that if feels like we are in the Pacific Northwest. With all this stuff coming down, my buddy John, sent me a WhatsApp message asking whether I checked the property we are buying to see if it is inundated. Thankfully, it is not, but about everywhere else in our part of Texas is flooded. Even crazier is the research site at the Kearney Outdoor Learning Area (KOLA) which is one of our main research areas. The water is almost always very far below the blue octagons (which you can partially see in the image above). I would really like to see this in real life someday. Amazing how much water is falling in Nebraska.
…but they will slow down dramatically after we buy the property. We do not think our house will sell immediately so there will be an impatient wait there. After that, there will be a frenetic move of all our stuff from our house into short-term storage and a move to Mexico followed by what could be a year long wait while the house is built. Hopefully, the two month (or so) design phase will coincide with the time it takes to build the house AND the time it takes to get our house on the hill in San Pedro to the point where we can live in it. There are LOTS of moving parts, but this, to me, is going to be another chance to do one more big thing. Actually, it is pretty small in the whole scheme of things, but big in terms of the amount of planning and effort it will take to implement the whole thing, God willing.
We spent the afternoon, yesterday, talking to the builder and designer, God willing, for the new house. I think it is going to be an incredible process that we will enjoy greatly, but it has dawned on me that, at a minimum, it is going to take at least a year. We have to get our current house sold, move our earthly goods into short-term storage, and move to Mexico. We will have to live with Grandma Conchita if the house at least one of the floors of our house in San Pedro is not finished. Then, the foundation will be put down on the property we are in the process of purchasing. After that, we were told it would take an additional eight months to complete the house.
Lorena and I drove over to look at the property and the surrounding neighborhood. It was just amazing because we are finding more and more stuff there all the time. One of the main things is the 4½ block (~0.3 miles) walk from the house to the “Historic Granbury Square.” But we found more shops and restaurants and a University arts training center, and fun neighborhoods, and etc., and etc. The designer called us right after we got home–we told him we would annotate some images of the things we liked and did not like about houses where we previously lived. That was very fun and informative and it is just the beginning of the process.
Lorena and I had a really interesting day today. First, I had a meeting with a professor from the Guadalajara campus of ITESM (important Mexican university system). There is a great chance we will be able to work with him as part of my day job. He is a gifted researcher and just an impressive individual.
After that, our builder, Brad, invited us to visit a house he had built in Granbury. The owners were beyond gracious in showing us their house. Our (famous) house designer lives just across the street and he came out to see us after we went through the house tour. We cam away from all of that with stars in our eyes. Everyone seems to know about the exact lot we have purchased and believe it was a brilliant move. That is yet to be determined, but we were VERY inspired and we LOVED the houses in that neighborhood–mostly all designed by our house designer.
THEN, I had a Signal message from Christian waiting for me when we got home from the house visit. It was the picture Christian took of my professor Troy after my PhD dissertation defense. All of it is all good.
Grateful.
Lorena and I drove to the office of our builder in Acton today to meet the guy who is designing our house. He is actually retired and only does projects that interest him with builders and customers he feels good about. We felt like we really hit it off with him–he is about my age, retired, and living in the same community. He and his wife walk together in the same area that Lorena and I hope to walk when the house is completed. Best of all is that, in addition to having many, many years of design success and recognition, he knows the specific, historic neighborhood where we plan to build and has ideas about what SHOULD be built there. It is especially gratifying that he, the builder, and Lorena and I want a house design that is more than something that works for us, but that will be of value to the community writ large. We are very excited about working with him and with Brad. I was especially encouraged by the attention they gave to what Lorena wants. It is great that her ideas are totally in sync with what is consonant with the ambiance of the town.
It is never the case that there is no drama when it comes to making large purchases (large being a relative term). The sellers accepted the offer, but changed the document to say “buyer is aware that property is subject to moratorium.” Our real estate agent called the city manager who told him that did not apply to our property because it was already platted, but our builder said that sometimes the higher ups do not know the actual rules, so he wanted us to sign and then take the seven days to figure out whether what the city manager said was actually true. So we signed. The ball is now in our court. If there is a moratorium, we have the right to pay $100 and back out, but if not, we now have the right to buy after we pay the earnest fee tomorrow morning. Really excited about that. In addition to all that, our builder introduced us to a rock star house designer with whom we will meet tomorrow to discuss the possibility of him doing our design. Can hardly wait.
I always get nervous buying or selling real estate when an agreement on price has been reached and we have done all the signing our side, but are waiting for the other side to do the final signing. That is where we are now. We are chomping at the bit to get started, but will be moving in and out of storage and selling our current house before the first shovel of dirt gets moved. Best case, we are still 3-4 months away.
Currently we are in a one acre lot with a fairly large house out in the country. We really love the house, but it is a long way from civilization (25 minutes to the closest full-size grocery store. We decided that, as I am very close to real retirement now, we probably should get closer to town on a smaller, easier-to-maintain lot. Our offer to buy just such a place was just accepted. It has the added benefit that we can walk to a ton of different restaurants, parks, the river, the lake, coffee houses, live theater, etc., etc. And the grocery stores are five minutes from the house.
The prickly pear cactus Lorena planted early this spring is starting to bloom which means we will soon have the sweet fruits from the cactus called tunas. It is amazing that not only the fruit is edible on this plant, but also the broad, oval shaped nopalitos that are effective against type II diabetes. I think I have tried the tuna fruit before, but really do not remember what they were like so I am looking forward to trying them again. As for the nopal, I really like them when they are part of a bigger salad or salsa. I am looking forward to that, too.
The fact that I am a senior citizen is something I am embracing more every day. I still think of Lorena as a young wife. I do not think I will ever think of the kids anything other than… kids. But in reality, they are adults and have been making their own way and paying their own way for ten years now. The thing that is most distracting to me as a senior citizen is something I have heard others describe and that is that you beginning to disappear to large swaths of society–even when you are in the room, you are not really in the room, if you know what I mean. Plus, the realization arrives that you are not really needed so much by the kids any more other than for moral support. That is a good thing, but hard to digest for us. Then, with retirement on the horizon, it is way more stressful than expected trying to figure out what to do when there is not full time job. It just makes me realize how thankful I am for wife and family.