"In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world." –John 16:33

Month: September 2013

Baltimore

Day 757 of 1000

Ever since Kelly went to live in Baltimore for a summer data scientist internship at the Johns Hopkins University Applied Physics Laboratory, she has been a HUGE fan of Baltimore.  Her summer with Bryan and Celia could well have been her best summer ever.  Kelly, as everyone knows, is also a huge fan of all things statistical.  She has gotten me so interested in the subject that I have taken to reading Statistics blogs.  My favorite is The Numbers Guy Blog at the Wall street journal, but I just ran into another one that looks great.  The name of the blog is Simply Statistics and the first post I read there is about an online course I should take on Data Analysis.  The second article, written by the Director of Graduate Studies from the Department of Biostatistics at JHU, is a hagiography about Baltimore titled So you’re moving to Baltimore.  Kelly should love it.

What is the world coming to?

First, I get forced into suffering with a Prius for a week.  It is bad enough driving the thing, but having people SEE me drive the thing is even more painful.  Now my very good buddy sends me an article from the national fishwrap and birdcage liner.  It is a great article on the love of math, but there is no way I am about to admit that I liked.  You can read it here. (h.t. JonChile)

Mexican Independence Day

Day 756 of 1000

Mexican FlagThis is a special time of year for Lorena’s family and friends in Mexico. El Grito de la Independencia is celebrated around midnight, the night of September 15th.  September 16th, Mexican Independence Day is a holiday throughout the country.  We love it for several reasons.  Lorena’s best friend from the time after we were just married is a Puerto Rican girl named Vanesa.  Her birthday is today.  We always fondly remember her birthday and it reminds us of the great experience we had at that time and place.

Add to that the annual church convention in Lorena’s home town that occurs right around this time and we get quite nostalgic.  All of the friends and family with whom Lorena grew up are together for a great time of communion and worship.  I can think of no place I would rather be at this time of year.  We love Mexico in general and Monterrey in particular.  We plan to be there this time next year.

Stuck with a Prius

Day 755 of 1000

I got stuck with a Toyota Prius today when I arrived in Phoenix.  I was not happy.  I learned to loathe them when I drove my parent’s Prius when I was in Oregon a few months back.  I am going to ask for the biggest SUV available next time I am in town.

Woo-hoo! Another semester on the Dean’s list

Kelly and Christian both make the Dean's list last fall semester

The graduate school application dance is about to begin

Day 754 of 1000

Something very interesting happened to Lorena last week.  An acquaintance noticed that Kelly was pretty stressed about something.  The something happened to be the proofs-based Linear Algebra class she is taking this semester.  It is a hard graduate level class taught be a internationally well-known applied mathematics professor at NCSU.  The acquaintance’s told Lorena her daughter-in-law’s doctoral degree was much tougher than anything Kelly might be doing and that Kelly should not get so stressed.  We laughed about it later.

We do not know whether or not that engineering degree was difficult, but we do know that what Kelly is doing is about as hard as it gets.  If she can handle this class, she can handle just about anything.  Some people struggle less with this complex material than Kelly.  She has to work hard and long to understand the material, but she is getting it.  Engineering degrees have more to do with the application of math and less to do with its theoretical underpinnings.

It is possible to memorize your way through many if not most engineering classes, even at the graduate level.  That is not true for most math classes.  You have to learn think in math. Paradigm shifts must occur to “get” the material and pass the class.  Engineering degrees are not as focused on memorization and regurgitation of material as liberal arts, law, medicine, biology, and the social science, but they are not like Physics, Chemistry, and Math either.

The conversation was mostly interesting because of the vicarious posturing about something for which the pontificator was wholly unqualified.  I think that is the way it is with the respect to graduate education in general.  People do not realize that even very difficult graduate degrees have more to do with persistence than perspicacity.  So in the spirit of persistence, the kids are taking the next step.  Today they are spending the morning taking a practice GRE test.  GRE stands for “Graduate Record Examination”.  It is the most commonly accepted graduate school application test.

They will take the real thing two weeks from today.  Then, they will start applying to graduate schools.  I will write more about that as they move through the process.

You just don’t understand!

Day 752 of 1000

Carla, a friend of ours and a mother from Georgia wrote something on Facebook this morning that really resonates with us at this time in the life of our family:

Once upon a time, long ago, in the “Dark Ages,” I was a teenager. I felt rebellious, I felt unsettled, I had crushes, I didn’t know what I wanted to be when I grew up, I wasn’t always crazy about what my parents thought, I was highly influenced by the opinions of others, I had acne, I experienced ‘peer pressure,’ I was self-conscious, I didn’t have my own car, I had homework, I got angry, I had frizzy hair, I argued with my siblings. So don’t tell me “You don’t know what I’m going through….”

Unequally yoked

Day 751 of 1000

I was thinking of a verse that I wanted to read, but did not know where to find it so I googled it.  The verse is II Corinthians 6:17.  It says:

Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,…

The whole context seems to run from verse 14 through the end of the chapter.  Here is the whole thing:

Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you. And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.

I was thinking about what one should do with respect to people who claim to be believers, but advocate for things that are clearly not scriptural such as remarriage after divorce1, abortion2, and homosexual behavior3.  I was not thinking so much about these behaviors, rather, I was thinking about what I should tell my children.  They asked me what is the right repsonse toward people who claim they have the same worldview and belief system as us while overtly advocating for things God hates and calls abomination.

When I googled the verse, it took me to a place that showed only that one verse.  I wanted to see the whole thing so I googled the chapter.  But, I inadvertantly googled Corinthians 6 (I not II).  I figured it out pretty quickly, but before I did I read the first part of the chapter.  It was amazingly apropo:

Dare any of you, having a matter against another, go to law before the unjust, and not before the saints? Do ye not know that the saints shall judge the world? and if the world shall be judged by you, are ye unworthy to judge the smallest matters? Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life? If then ye have judgments of things pertaining to this life, set them to judge who are least esteemed in the church.  I speak to your shame. Is it so, that there is not a wise man among you? no, not one that shall be able to judge between his brethren? But brother goeth to law with brother, and that before the unbelievers.

That was very interesting and made me think of some additional verses in Matthew 18:

Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man and a publican.

This all gave me pause. I have always been the type to try not to make waves, but when one’s kids are involved it is often necessary to say something and probably take a firm stand.  After attempting to get through the scriptural process and at least a plurality and probably a majority are still at odds with what you believe is true and right, then what?   The kids really do need an answer, and a good parent owes it to them.  I think the time is coming when more and more parents will face this.

1.  The words of Jesus in Mark 10:11-12.
2.  The phrase “conceived and bore” is used repeatedly (see Genesis 4:1,17) and the individual has the same identity before as after birth. “In sin my mother conceived me,” the repentant psalmist says in Psalm 51:7. The same word is used for the child before and after birth (Brephos, that is, “infant,” is used in Luke 1:41 and Luke 18:15.)  God knows the preborn child. “You knit me in my mother’s womb . . . nor was my frame unknown to you when I was made in secret” (Psalm 139:13,15). God also helps and calls the preborn child. “You have been my guide since I was first formed . . . from my mother’s womb you are my God” (Psalm 22:10-11). “God… from my mother’s womb had set me apart and called me through his grace” (St. Paul to the Galatians 1:15). (Cited from this webpage)
3.  Old Testament: Leviticus 20:13.  New Testament:  Romans 1:26-27.

Just so you will know…

Day 750 of 1000

Shame, shame, shameI received mixed reviews from my family on my post about Christian’s 18th Birthday.  Lorena and Kelly loved it, but I received a stern lecture on grace and humility from Christian.  He is not so keen that people know his age nor does he advertise his accomplishments.  I am pretty sure he is right and I am letting pride get the best of me.  I am sorry.

Still, there are not so many opportunities for homeschool kids to get accolades for academic achievement.  It is not like the kids sent to government schools for warehousing in a Lord of the Flies style social settings so their mothers, at least the ones who are not forced to work for a living, can get their “me” time at their yoga class and their lattes at Starbucks.  There are selfies that need to be posted on Facebook and Instagram and kids get in the way of finding time and the right venue for just the right picture.  In the meantime, much effort is expended to provide accolade opportunities in the name of building self-esteem in badly socialized kids who are often not so accomplished at either learning or doing.

So, I am really going to try to back it off a bunch, work on my humility, and not be too prideful–at least until (and if) the kids graduate.  Even then, I will try to keep it brief.

How Christian almost didn’t make it into Calculus his freshman year

Wow!  After I wrote the post below about Christian’s CLEP credits going into the community college, I realized I might be wrong about the number he had earned.  I WAS wrong.  He earned 15 credits, not 13.  When I looked that up, his mathematics placement scores came up.  Normally, students need to have completed Precalculus to start the first Calculus sequence.  Christian took the test after having completed only half of Precalculus in homeschool.  We were very surprised when he tested into Calculus.  What I did not know until today is that he did it by the skin of his teeth.  He tested fairly highly in virtually everything but Trigonometry.  In Trig, Christian needed a score of 50 or greater to get into Calculus.  He got a 50.  If this would not have happened, both Kelly’s and Christian’s trajectory would have been dramatically different.

Notes on Christian’s 18th birthday

Day 745 of 1000

I will be in Arizona on Christian’s birthday this year so we had a birthday cake and celebrated a little early with a birthday cake and some candles after dinner last night.  It was nice.  I thought I would write down a few things about him to celebrate this milestone.
Christian and Dad, two days before his 18th birthday

Here are a just a few random notes:

  • When Christian was about 12, he had pretty sloppy handwriting, but for some reason or another, he got fascinated with the topic of fonts.  He implemented anti-aliasing of fonts on RockBox (an operating system for MP3 players with screens), designed some computer fonts, then decided he wanted to design his own, fast, efficient, handwritten, serif font.  He did that and it was quite amazing.  For a period of about two years he took notes and wrote letters with a hand-written font that looks essential similar to courier new.  When he started getting into complicated college class at age 14 or 15 he needed to write faster, so he dropped some of the serifs, but still has impressive handwriting skills.
  • Christian is one class short of his associate degree.  He has enough credits, but needs one literature class to finish up.  He loves his old community college (Wake Tech) and wants to finish the degree online after he gets out of graduate school.  I hope he does that.
  • Christian started NCSU as a Junior when he was 16.  Rather than go through normal channels to get a canned research project, he approached the professor in charge of electrical engineering graduate research to solicit a research project.  The professor told him no one had previously done that, but got the word out and he was given two professors that needed some help.  He is now on his third project for the professor he selected and has had a stellar research experience that has included circuit design, data gathering and analysis, PID loop tuning, C/C++, Assembly, and MatLab programming, a research paper, two research posters (and presentations), and he still has a big capstone project and paper in math and image processing to do before he graduates.
  • Christian started college full time at age 14, but had 15 credits from CLEP testing he started accumulating when he was 13 that were accepted by the community college.
  • Christian started his Senior year at NCSU at age 17.  He has a 4.0 GPA.  He is taking two graduate level math classes this semester and is scheduled for three more next semester.  He has been on the Dean’s list every semester he has been in college.
  • Christian took a driver education class that is offered by the State of North Carolina when he was fifteen.  He got his drivers permit just in time to spend the whole summer driving from near Fuquay-Varina with his Dad to an engineering internship in RTP.
  • Now that he is 18, he is old enough to go into the men’s locker room at the YMCA.
  • He is scheduled to do English-Spanish translation at our church convention this weekend.
  • He is a good son who gives us great joy.

HAPPY 18th BIRTHDAY CHRISTIAN!!!

A serious 18th Birthday picture of Christian with Dad

Grandpa Milo and Grandma Sarah return to the pond at Newberg

Day 741 of 1000

The place where Grandpa Milo and Grandma Sarah now live had an event by the pond that Grandpa Milo built at their old place in Newberg.  It has been turned into a place that hosts weddings and other big events.

Grandpa Milo and Grandma Sarah -- August 2013 visit to their old home

Here is one of Grandpa Milo’s signature concoctions he made for the event:

Grandpa Milo puts together quite an offering for his party

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